Why Younger Women Tend To Look For Older Men… It’s Usually Not About the Money

Younger women’s attraction to older men is something that causes intrigue and discussion around the world; throughout history it’s been a cultural phenomenon prevalent in both the East and West.

Culturally and historically it made sense from a standpoint of men taking a few years to gather the resources required to support a younger woman.

But in this day and age, younger women’s attraction to older men isn’t all about the money. Older men provide a security, which is mainly down to their confidence and experience. As a mature gentleman you’ll have already tackled many of the issues younger men find it hard to cope with because of their inexperience.

Been There, Done That

Younger men tend to be less sure about relationships. Their desire to experience the world of romance means they’re often not happy to commit to one woman. The younger man can often find it difficult to show the emotional maturity to cope with a long-term relationship.

As an older man you’re likely to have experienced relationships in the past, and will have a better understanding on what a woman really wants. This experience is one of the things younger girls desire most.

You’re Not Tied To Your Career

As an older man it’s less likely you’ll be tied to work, as you may be nearing the end of your career. Hopefully you’re at a stage in life where there’s less pressure on you to perform at work, and this means you have more time to spend at home with your loved one.

Younger girls love to know their man will be able to spend time with them, instead of being cooped up in an office all day.

Less Family Pressure

Being more mature means you’re unlikely to face any real pressure from your own family to settle down with any particular kind of woman. Whereas a younger man may be pressured by his parents to marry within his religion, or to start a family, as an older man you’ll be far more of a “free spirit” and able to make your own decisions.

The Adventurous Spirit

It is very common for older men to have what is known in psychology as their “second childhood.” This translates to older men being more inclined to travel and embrace their adventurous spirit. Perhaps this is something you identify with yourself.

Instead of worrying about how to make your wealth, it’s more likely your main concern will be how to enjoy it. In a man’s latter years in isn’t unusual to see them take spontaneous trips, buy fun and fast cars and do things that might compromise a younger man’s sense of financial security.

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You Are Classier

Less interested in each season’s style, you seldom fall victim to passing trends that make younger men seem immature to women their own age. This is true in fashion as well as entertainment and personality.

Directly resulting from your strong knowledge base and cultural exposure, you’re less dependent upon current events to dictate how to behave or how to dress.

Older men are generally less tied to the mainstream media movement so you don’t get caught up in passing fads of music or fashion that can often lead to embarrassing your girlfriend.

More Likely To Settle Down

As an older man you’re probably at a time of life where you want to settle down with one woman. You no longer feel the need to “play the field” or prove your masculinity by dating as many women as you can, and instead want to take it easy and enjoy the company of one special person.

Younger girls in Thailand are very family orientated, and don’t like the insecurity that comes with dating younger guys. They see the older man as more loyal, caring, and understanding which makes you instantly more desirable.

As you can see, there are many more reasons why a younger girl may be trying to win your affections. Whilst it’s good to ensure her intentions are good before giving her too much of your heart, it may be she is simply just falling in love with you and not your bank balance.

 

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